Wednesday, September 22, 2010


We think that as parents, we are defined by our parenting style: baby wearing vs. travel system, disposable vs. cloth diapers, breast-fed vs. formula-fed, stay-at-home vs. working mother, homemade vs. store-bought baby food, time-out vs. spanking, limited vs. unlimited tv, scheduled vs. unscheduled, public vs. private vs. homeschooled, etc. I could go on all day...BUT what truly defines us as parents is whether or not we love our children and let that love guide our actions. You can read all kinds of arguments about why this parenting method is better than that parenting method, but in reality, we will ALL make mistakes. What truly matters is that we love our children and do the best we can to let our love guide our actions. As a child, you can't ask for better...there are plenty of children out there whose parents do not love them and treat them quite badly. Arguments and posturing over parenting styles and such just serves to build some people up by tearing other people down. Parents are hard enough on themselves without the "help" of others. Perhaps instead it is better to be thankful for parents that love their children.


  1. Very well said! And maybe what's best for one child isn't best for another. While some children thrive in public schools, others do much better homeschooled. While some need a strict schedule, others are more relaxed and "go with the flow" type kids.

    No one mom is better than another. If each of us is doing what is best for our children/families, there's not much more we can ask of ourselves!

  2. Couldn't agree more Audra! I have been taught a lot over the last couple years by Jessica about how even the research articles can be wrong when it comes to what works best for my kid!